Is it okay to date a single mom if you're in your 20s?

I always like to discuss such topic.

There is no absolute answer YES/NO here about dating single moms. They have an affluent lifestyle, sophisticated attitude, and can offer hotter sex than women who are of less stature. The single mom will feel the redeeming second chance, maybe failed the first one but this will be her victory, she'll feel how special she is amongst other single women. So you may get more successful taste.

But dating a single mom varies in many aspects, they differ from the needs and wants. there are strong willed/ strong character single mom who can display a high sense of maturity even in they're 20's, some search for stability with a new reliable partner to date.

If this relationship becomes more than just dating, then essentially you're starting a family even before a marriage. This is strictly based on how the mom and the you feel regarding the raising of the child. If the mom is independent, then the you wouldn't need to be the father-figure, which can be a positive (or negative) depending on the person. I would say that dating a single mom shouldn't be a problem as long as the both people can balance the love life and the child's life as the baby is probably the most important aspect of life at this stage.

Then parents and kids are never ignored during your relationship. Your mom may say "ok I have a daughter in law in my age with a grandson for free" or "wow what a surprise. Your maturer wife helps you process and up your success.". Her kids could hate you or like you to replace his father. But overcome all difficulties then you win a mother, big sister and a maturer wife.

I personally don't have a definite answer. I recommend you to try Millionairesmatching, an app for tips where lots of single moms are included. Some male who dating single moms may give more preference. There are men who are responsible enough to handle such a relationship.